At this time I can't think of an actual mattress that would be good for this, so I will leave that question for someone else. But consider bed frames.
However, I recall an old story my mother told me that a coworker of hers told her.
This lady was over 400 lbs, and so was her boyfriend/husband (I don't remember which but it's not important for this story). This was also in the early 80s, where everyone on average was much thinner. Too thin in fact, but that's a different topic. I guess that nearly 900 lbs of fleshy softness, and all the shaking while doing the nasty was just too much. So one night when doing it, their bed frame broke and it caused a loud crash. It was hard to contain myself, especially since it's my mother who passed that story on.
Point is, either do without a bed frame, or make sure it's extra reinforced or sufficiently strong enough. Not sure if today's bed frames might be stronger, but they could be.
Or go ahead with a weak bed frame. If it broke under the combined weight of myself and a future girlfriend, I would likely be turned on and thrilled.
4 years
